“It is what it is”. This is the response this doctor gave me when I found out my baby had Spina Bifida and could potentially not make it. This response was completely heartless and unprofessional as a doctor. The week prior to this, I was being asked if I wanted to abort my child or take the risks and when I returned to her office, I feel like I was treated like complete trash. For her to be an OBGYN all these years and to have absolutely no emotion towards myself or my baby makes me question everything about her professions as a doctor. She didn’t have my baby nor my best interest after finding out she wouldn’t be delivering due to the complications. There’s so much more I could say, but I won’t because I have moved onto a new OBGYN & I am being taken care of with love and compassion now. I just wish Santino had more passion. She showed me that she has no compassion for what she does for a living. Maybe it’s time for her to retire since she can’t show a mom who is hurting an ounce of sympathy.